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Don’t give out personal information (name, age, address, phone number, social security number) to strangers.

Never meet in person with an online strangers.

Never invite a stranger to come meet you in person or call you at your home.

Don’t open attachments from strangers (or friends) without scanning them with an up-to-date anti-virus program.

Use an online name that doesn’t reveal your gender or age. A bad choice would be Mary_12; better names are “oaktree99”, “grasshopper”, and other gender and age neutral monikers.

Use passwords that meet the highest standards of privacy. Avoid using common words, pet names, or common word combinations. Instead, use combinations of upper and lowercase letters/characters along with numbers. And, don’t give your password out to anyone.

Report disrespectful comments.

Report any online interaction that makes you feel uncomfortable or scared to the admin.